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Thursday, 19 November 2009

ENCOURAGEMENT.

My gosh! I NEVER MADE A LOT OF MISTAKES IN A SINGLE DANCE! Started off from the wrong entrance, then messed up steps! Seriously, teacher asked us to come out of the back stage even its not even our que yet! So we were ahead. The music is like so... Nvm! Atleast I managed to balance the glass on my forehead prosperly!!

Seriously, dancing is the only thing that I barely make mistakes. I mean, I can follow the steps really well but today, wow HANCUR! I never expected it to turn out that way today. GENERAL REHEARSALS AGAIN! Our practices were ok during our normal practices but today was totally ruined.

All that aside- I was playing with the lighter just now. Which means fire! Haha. Well I actually played with the flashlight on top of the lighter, you know those kind of flashlights right? Haha. Niks saw me, then I told Ella to say 'ah!'. I'm playing dentist ok! Haha. Then Niks borrowed it. She started to play 'optalmologist' then yeah. I took the lighter back then played with the fire. She borrowed it again to play with fire. Here goes Maria, she blew the lighter's fire like a birthday celebrant blowing her birthday candles. Well, I don't exactly know what happened but yeah, Niks suddenly shut her eyes. Then 4 of us had a good laugh. By 4 of us, I meant, Niks, Jasmine, maria and me. :) :) :)

Then this lame joke came me, I asked Maria, 'what if niks accidentally light the lighter instead of the flashlight? That will burn her brows!'
For some reason Maria laughed harder and yeah. I was like, ok this is getting random!!! Haha.

Again Maria ruined Niks' cowboy views. :) Niks told me, 'You look like a cowboy in that attire'
Maria immediately responded, 'yeee ha!'
Seriously. Maria is pretty hyper just now. :)

Ok ok, side tracked! For the topic of today! As I said last night, I'm gonna share something encouraging today!

First, Define the word friendship!

It is an affection, alliance, amity, attachment, camaraderie, relationship or attachment to another person.

You must understand that friendship is not built so easily. You need to gain a certain person's trust.

ANOTHER THING! FRIENDSHIPS MUST NOT BE THROWN AWAY! MUST NOT BE IGNORED!

Don't be so immature.

When someone did little wrong to you, don't go like, 'oh I don't friend you anymore!' VERY IMMATURE!

Before you say that, make sure that you have a very valid reason. But I won't accept any reason. For me, friendships must be cherished! Its not a toy that when you're done playing with it, you'll just leave it behind in one place or a toy thats when broken you'll just throw it away since its useless already. FRIENDSHIP IS MORE THAN THAT!

No one in this world doesn't have a friend. Everyone is meant to have someone that they can count on whenever they need comfort, hug and someone to talk with.

This topic came to me cuz one of my friends told me that her friend told me that she wants to break their friendship. I would say, that's just STUPID!

FRIENDSHIP IS NOT A TOY! I know its hard to gain back the trust lost after you guys had a misunderstanding. But work hard. Everything will pay off!

Only Aaron Lim knows this story. I think I should share so that you'll be encouraged.

I'm very sure that in your life, you came across with a person you treated and loved like a real brother or sister. I don't have any siblings so yeah. I became very close to this person and used my prefect position to keep him out of trouble and everything. We are very close!

He was getting jealous whenever I talk about people who are really nice to me. But that only shows that he cares ok. We've been through a lot, through the ups and downs, we kept each other strong. Now that's real friendship. Whenever he has problems, He'll talk to me online and I do the same. Or if possible, we'll talk personally. :)

And this day finally came. Our very first misunderstanding. It tore me apart after he told me to stay away and he doesn't want to see me anymore.

I didn't do what he wanted me to do. I still stayed. It was hard. But for some reason I still felt that the affection was there. He was still trying to get my attention, I found out that he still talks good things about me and defends me when someone is talking behind my back. But even he's doing that. He still insisted for to go away.

I still didn't. I worked so hard to put us back together! I picked up the pieces he threw away... I did succeed. All hard work was paid off.

Tell me, why did I even bother fixing it while he's driving me away?

Yes, it is part of me. But that's not the answer why. The real answer is that, if I just let it slip away out of my hands and let him go since he wanted me to go away, I WOULD FEEL SO MUCH PAIN! HE WILL TOO. Yes, it hurts fixing things, especially when the other party doesn't want to fix it. But its worth it ok.

Don't just throw it away like some kind of toy. Value your friendship. :)

Remember, THERE ARE GOLD SHIPS AND SILVER SHIPS BUT THE BEST SHIP IS FRIENDSHIP :)

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