DEPENDING TOO MUCH??

Hey guys! How's your day so far? Mine is going great.

I wanna share to you guys what I've learnt from my CG leaders Aaron and Jerold. Its about depending on other people so much. My blog today is dedicated to one of the regular readers of my blog who will go in msn like, 'IVAN! Why didn't blog today, I need your advice now!'

One thing i wanna tell you, I maybe able to help you NOW but what if the day that I'm not there comes? Who will you depend on? I'm not saying that I'm gonna die soon but at some point, I will not be there to help you guys out and blog for you to get some advice from.

I'm not saying that you guys should stop depending on me. I'm always glad to give out advices. But I'm telling you. I cannot solve every problem there is in this world. There's a certain limit for me to fine an answer for you guys. Yes, I'm glad that I created so much impact for you guys. I will be here to help but remember. There are problems that I don't want to 'campur tangan'.

One more thing, this part I've learnt from Aaron and Jerold. At some point, people will have to part ways and people are just people and at some point, they will fail you, leave you behind and can't help you. I'm NOT trying to tell you that ALL PEOPLE will fail you but at certain times they will, even me.

Don't get me wrong, I feel so glad and so trustworthy that you guys are sharing your problems with me, opening up with me and asking me for advices. I'm happy for that. Thank you for trusting me. :)

But as I said. There's a certain range of problems I can give you advices. Not all. One suggestion, open up to GOD! There is nothing He cannot do! He will be able to help you. Just talk to Him. He will never fail. Just surrender and commit everything in His hands.

I hate disappointing people ok. I don't feel right if I disappoint someone.

I don't want to be a hypocrite of some sort, I also use to do that. I also depend on people so much but I learn ok?? I learnt that you cannot always count on your friends for answers.. They don't have it all.

Now, I depend on God cuz I know this problems are just trials to make me even stronger. So I hope I'm able to impart some blessing to you guys. I'm glad I was able to become a blessing to this person who admitted that I'm always able to help out. You know who you are.

PRAISE GOD THAT I'M ABLE TO BE OF SOME BLESSING TO YOU. :)